Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,
I trust and pray you are well. God bless you always!
Since we are now in the full swing of Sunday School and the church (thankfully) is filling up, I’d like to reintroduce our Church Etiquette guide in the Sunday Bulletin. Those guidelines are published so that everyone’s worship experience is celebrated and with the least number of interruptions or distractions.
But in fairness, I have been asked, “why can’t we walk in at this time?” Or “why should we be standing at that time?” So, to clear things up, I offer this simple explanation as to why we do what we do, and don’t do what we don’t do, during the Divine Services of the Church – especially on Sunday mornings.
In the Bulletin, we remind the Faithful that we do not enter the church during certain times. These times include the entrances, processions, readings from the Epistle and the Gospel, the homily, the reciting of the Lord’s Prayer and the Nicene Creed, during the Consecration of the Holy Gifts, and pretty much any time the priest is facing the congregation and addressing them.
Wow. Admittedly, that is a long list of designated times of no movement during the services. But you will notice that these are areas of the service that are of a heightened importance and require an environment of sanctity and respect. For those who have already assembled to worship, it is incredibly distracting to move around or lose attention. Most especially, when the Gospel is being read, we all need to be highly aware of every spoken word of Scripture. We need to be listening intently and concentrating. That means even in the narthex, when the Gospel is being read, we need to be focused on the Word. And of course, it’s just common courtesy not to be walking in while people are listening to the sermon.
Please let’s also be equally aware, that it is just as distracting to leave the church during these times. Please refrain from going out during these times as well.
Standing in church is a posture that represents attentiveness, respect, and reverence. We stand during the receiving of Holy Communion because the Very Body and Blood of Christ are present in our midst. If the king is in the room, we do not sit casually. So, when the King is in the church, we stand attentively. I realize this is a new tradition or expectation to many of our new, faithful worshippers. But I believe that with time and practice, patience and endurance will follow.
You will also notice the stanchion rope in the back of the church. This rope is placed there to reduce movement up and down the center aisle during worship services. The center aisle is used for censing and processions and should not be used unless an usher or parish council member removes the rope. Since the church is filling up, they will monitor seating and allow individuals to take those inside seats. But please, do not step over the rope to enter or exit the church.
I love the fact that we enjoy seeing each other in church. And Sunday mornings are the ideal times to catch up with our friends and family. But please, refrain from idol talk and especially laughter while inside the church. Standing in line for Communion, or for antidoron after church may seem like a great time to visit, but please remember, we are still assembled for worship at those times, and our most appropriate demeanor is still appreciated.
If you are ever in church and not able to find a seat, and are required to stand in the back, please be careful not to lean against the west wall and scrape against the iconography. To be sure, the paint used is tough and hardy. But why test its limits? Please stand tall just away from the wall.
Lastly, please remember that for any strange reason, that may require you to cross from one side of the church to the other during services, please do so from the back of the church, not in front.
While I realize that this little treatise sounds obnoxious with all the do’s and don’ts, but I offer it sincerely with the intent of heightening our awareness to proper etiquette while in the church. Thank you for receiving this information in the manner in which it was intended. I remain,
With Much Love in Christ,
Fr. Anthony Savas
Protopresbyter